Anonymous asked: whats the best way to get over a breakup ?
You can’t get over it, that’s just avoiding everything you feel. Get through it instead. Allow yourself to be okay with feeling every shitty emotion and coming to terms with the fact that you are no longer involved with this person. And that breaking up was sadly in the cards for you both.However, better things are coming. I hated when people would tell me it’s “a learning lesson.”But it sort of is you realize what you like and don’t like in a partner. Anyways don’t stalk their social media and tbh I would unfollow them off pretty much everything it clears your head of all the clutter that is taking up valuable space in your mind. Surround yourself with good friends, listen to some sad music, and cry your guts out. One of those ugly face swollen eyes type of cries. Even though you probably will look gross, You’ll feel so good trust me. The best part about it is it will all be over before you know it and you’ll be looking back at that time and remembering that if you could get through something like that you can pretty much handle anything else emotionally. Good luck, -aatikz